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Aug
01
Step into the Gray - #toritalk

Step into the Gray - #toritalk

Welcome to the gray.
4 min read
Jul
19
Is it Love, or Something Else?

Is it Love, or Something Else?

At some point, we have to ask ourselves: How are we defining love to the point where we get it so wrong so often?
8 min read
Jul
16
Why We Hate Each Other, And How to Fix It

Why We Hate Each Other, And How to Fix It

How we treat others is usually a dead-on reflection of how we treat ourselves. The scary thing is that it exposes us. The beautiful thing is that you can use it.
37 min read
Jun
17
Boundaries: A Practice

Boundaries: A Practice

Boundaries aren't about getting other people to treat you better. Boundaries are about getting YOURSELF to treat you better.
16 min read
Jun
01
Your Body is a Compass

Your Body is a Compass

Our bodies are equipped to tell us all of this, yet we spend almost all our time looking for answers in everything but ourselves.
1 min read
May
20
Saying No to Mistreatment

Saying No to Mistreatment

Develop a picture in your head of what a life without mistreatment looks like. How is it showing up for you now? How can it look instead?
4 min read
May
14
The Art of Trust

The Art of Trust

I realize now that what I really wanted was to outsource the work of really seeing people. But seeing people, and I mean really seeing them, can't be outsourced.
27 min read
Apr
15
How to be "Good Selfish"

How to be "Good Selfish"

"Generosity", as we were taught it, is just a catchall for giving ourselves to others. With no guidance or encouragement on when enough is enough, when it's okay to say no, when it's okay to choose ourselves.
25 min read
Mar
30
Give Your People Permission to Disapprove

Give Your People Permission to Disapprove

Sometimes the best vibe is the one that holds space for the ugly things.
3 min read
Mar
20
We're Thinking About Time Management All Wrong

We're Thinking About Time Management All Wrong

No matter what tools or software or anything you use, your time management will still be poor until you change the way you think about it to begin with.
11 min read