healing journey

Oct
30
The Power of Taking Things Personally (Or Not)

The Power of Taking Things Personally (Or Not)

"...no matter how many times I heard "Tori, everything isn't about you" when I’d get offended or take something personally, I couldn't seem to really get it."
28 min read
Oct
26
If We Really Want Mental & Emotional Wellbeing...

If We Really Want Mental & Emotional Wellbeing...

I love that more people are feeling comfortable going to therapy as a result of Pop Psychology content. I wonder how much of that session time is spent reversing the impact of the content itself.
19 min read
Sep
30
Mind vs. Body Debate

Mind vs. Body Debate

PSA: work around mindset and beliefs is not separate or in contradiction to Somatic work. It's a part of it.
8 min read
Apr
03
Why Healing Might Not Be Working For You (And What to Focus On Instead)

Why Healing Might Not Be Working For You (And What to Focus On Instead)

47 min read
Nov
28
How Finding Your Purpose Actually Works

How Finding Your Purpose Actually Works

Love represents our relationships with other people. Purpose represents our relationships with our lives.
28 min read
Nov
22
Hurt vs. Harm

Hurt vs. Harm

Being triggered isn't an assault. It's information.
3 min read
Nov
21
Working With Emotional Triggers (A Full Guide)

Working With Emotional Triggers (A Full Guide)

Working with emotional triggers is the act of soothing your nervous system so you can address what's happening right now for what it is. A potential problem. Nothing more, nothing less.
22 min read
Nov
20
Understanding and Healing Relationship Anxiety

Understanding and Healing Relationship Anxiety

Relationship anxiety isn't your fault, but a part of relational hygiene is to minimize the need for unnecessary emotional labor. You've got this.
11 min read
Nov
19
How to Cultivate Healthy Relationships In Your Life

How to Cultivate Healthy Relationships In Your Life

The level of health you experience in your relationships directly correlates with your personal capacity for relational health.
21 min read
Nov
15
Transforming Your Inner Critic

Transforming Your Inner Critic

Why would we ever try to silence an ally instead of partner with it to form a better-functioning allyship? Wouldn't that make more sense?
22 min read