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Nov
28
How Finding Your Purpose Actually Works

How Finding Your Purpose Actually Works

Love represents our relationships with other people. Purpose represents our relationships with our lives.
28 min read
Nov
22
Hurt vs. Harm

Hurt vs. Harm

Being triggered isn't an assault. It's information.
3 min read
Nov
21
Working With Emotional Triggers (A Full Guide)

Working With Emotional Triggers (A Full Guide)

Working with emotional triggers is the act of soothing your nervous system so you can address what's happening right now for what it is. A potential problem. Nothing more, nothing less.
22 min read
Nov
15
Transforming Your Inner Critic

Transforming Your Inner Critic

Why would we ever try to silence an ally instead of partner with it to form a better-functioning allyship? Wouldn't that make more sense?
22 min read
Nov
03
The Myth of Self Awareness

The Myth of Self Awareness

If I were practicing self awareness 10 years ago I would’ve been aware that my assholish guard was covering up deep, deep anguish. I would've known that the anguish I felt wasn't caused by any of the people I was behaving that way toward. But I wasn't aware of that.
4 min read
Oct
21
Authenticity Is / Is Not... (Activity Prompt)

Authenticity Is / Is Not... (Activity Prompt)

How can you act authentically from your truth if you aren't checking in on it?
13 min read
Oct
20
The Challenge of "Authenticity"

The Challenge of "Authenticity"

Hurting someone’s feelings and causing them harm are two different things.
5 min read
Oct
03
The Sunny Side of Healing

The Sunny Side of Healing

Trauma tells us the loss of anything we love is dangerous. The pain is too big to bear. But it is a gift to ourselves to realize we can surrender this experience. This story. We can write a greater one.
29 min read
Sep
24
Reflection Prompt: Your Life / Your Mind

Reflection Prompt: Your Life / Your Mind

Focus on a pattern in your life that you want to change. If you’re used to experiencing these patterns as something that happens to you, or something someone else is doing to you, we’re going to give you your power back really quick...
3 min read
Sep
23
Your Mind / Your Life

Your Mind / Your Life

"Your mind has to move in a different direction before your life will."
1 min read