Tori Reid

Tori Reid

Columbus, OH, USA
Oct
20
The Challenge of "Authenticity"

The Challenge of "Authenticity"

Hurting someone’s feelings and causing them harm are two different things.
5 min read
Oct
06
"Why Do I Keep Attracting Them?"

"Why Do I Keep Attracting Them?"

That question never helped me do anything but drown in my helplessness. What did help me was to get curious about...
1 min read
Oct
03
The Sunny Side of Healing

The Sunny Side of Healing

Trauma tells us the loss of anything we love is dangerous. The pain is too big to bear. But it is a gift to ourselves to realize we can surrender this experience. This story. We can write a greater one.
29 min read
Sep
24
Reflection Prompt: Your Life / Your Mind

Reflection Prompt: Your Life / Your Mind

Focus on a pattern in your life that you want to change. If you’re used to experiencing these patterns as something that happens to you, or something someone else is doing to you, we’re going to give you your power back really quick...
3 min read
Sep
23
Your Mind / Your Life

Your Mind / Your Life

"Your mind has to move in a different direction before your life will."
1 min read
Sep
15
Are You Setting Boundaries, or Erecting Barriers?

Are You Setting Boundaries, or Erecting Barriers?

We can define barriers as the roadblock version of boundaries.  Meaning: they’re not here to repair the relationship or bring us closer together. They’re here to block connection and intimacy instead.
7 min read
Sep
05
Your Undiscovered Birthright.

Your Undiscovered Birthright.

The other day I posted a TikTok about trust. The message, simply put, was that when you trust people to
8 min read
Aug
20
Self Worth Activity - Mirrors

Self Worth Activity - Mirrors

"The things that bother us in other people are the things we dislike most about ourselves"
3 min read
Aug
18
Self Worth

Self Worth

Where does self worth really come from?
4 min read
Jun
12
Healing Is / Not...

Healing Is / Not...

Healing is not about having a "calm nervous system". It's about having one that lives in
2 min read